دانلود کتاب زوج های در تعارض تکنیک های بالینی برای هدایت و کنترل چالشهای جنسی و روابط

In treating couples for a little over 40 years both in private practice and in var­ious clinics, I have seen many of them “stuck” in a circular dynamic—like a two-person Ferris wheel that keeps on spinning. One partner attacks the other which in turn provokes a counterattack and vice versa. I refer to this dynamic as a process because a couple may demonstrate this interaction in a variety of con­texts or by using different forms of content; in this book context and content are used interchangeably. For example, a couple can repeatedly joust about finances, politics, or sex. The process tends to stay the same, but the context or con­tent may change. Some of these interactions become quite heated, and in their extreme, physical. Many of these couples have been in treatment with different clinicians, both behavioral and psychodynamic in orientation; others have added individual treatment to break their gridlock but were met with limited success. But what holds these couples in place? What is responsible for the symptoms that cause them to suffer?