دانلود کتاب جادوی SignMates – راهنمای نجومی برای عشق رمانتیک

When I began writing this book my hope was to inspire readers to never give up in finding a loving relationship. If only romantic relationships always had a beginning that predictably led to such harmony! Mystery and intrigue lead many of us to play the relationship game. Perhaps it’s the excitement of unpredictability that romantic love offers that entices a person to avidly seek it in another. The first edition of this book was published in 2000 by Llewellyn with the title, SignMates: An Astrological Guide to Love and Intimacy. In this second edition, I chose to give the book a new title, The Magic of SignMates because there is a magical attraction stimulated by the powerful, passionate force found in romantic love. One of the aims of this book is to dispel the myth that certain signs can never be compatible or that some signs are always compatible with each other. Neither is true all of the time. With a lot of practice and patience, any two signs can learn to establish stability. Granted, certain sign combinations do bring out more of an intensity in one another on a regular basis. For instance, an Aries- Scorpio combination tends to be more tempestuous than a Virgo- Capricorn combination. Fiery Aries enjoys sparring with the passionate sign of Scorpio as much as Scorpio can test Aries’ patience to the limit (as illustrated in the Poker Face game in part II). A long-term commitment can grow out of the Aries-Scorpio relationship if each can learn to negotiate with the other. Even though earthy Virgo and Capricorn have a common need to create stability, this combination can find themselves playing the Working Harder Rather Than Smarter game. Each of these signs thrives on commitment and efficiency. The flowing ease found between a Virgo-Capricorn couple can be disrupted at times by conflict that tests the depth of the relationship. By the same token, the natural intensity found in Aries-Scorpio mates could do with a little lightening up once in a while. There are no perfect relationships, so don’t expect to find any perfect sign combinations in this book. Problems for many of us stem from being at a loss as to know how to deal with each other. Men are apt to be aggressive while women are inclined to be more refined and compassionate. Men are generally more detached from their emotions and concerned with hard facts and the bottom line. Women generally lean toward a holistic approach based upon emotions. Men usually do not show as much feeling in the bonding process. This is not the case when women communicate. Men and women often need to translate or reiterate the words spoken to one another to be clear about their true intentions. Many men need to learn how to get more in touch with their feelings. Women today certainly take on roles and express themselves in ways that in previous times were reserved for men only. We really don’t get much briefing on how to handle romantic relationships. In my opinion, romantic love is the most powerful motivating force in life. While career and family are key drives in their own right, they still fall behind the instinct in each of us to find a partner. In his book We, Jungian Psychologist Robert A. Johnson states, “Romantic love is the single greatest energy system in the Western psyche.” He goes on to say, “In our culture it has supplanted religion as the arena in which men and women seek meaning, transcendence, wholeness, and ecstasy.” Think about it for a second. What other experience do people continue to try over and over again, already knowing that in modern society the chances for success are slim? The risk of failing does not outweigh the alluring magic that romance promises to bring to each of us.